Wednesday, April 25, 2007

The Neurochemical Itch and Cults.

How often we have heard the Girl was Hindu and The Boy was Muslim so they eloped and married. They were fearing of the consequences as a super "NO" from the family members and social stalwarts. The recent hullabaloo over the Umar-Priyanka marriage is very predictable as it still suggest that social mentality has not yet grown mature to imbibe the Universal Truth of Humanity. Still it suggests that the mode of thinking lies in the hands of cult drivers not in the Universal Law Of Land. If government has made laws that any Girl or boy mentally fit, have acquired the adulthood are free to take the decisions regarding to their life, then why is such a fuss over the petty issue. If two youth are set to provide the world with a new view of life and new direction to the society by unifying the two different modes of thinking why not we should support them. If we analyze slightly , we are supposed to face some very strange modes of thinking patterns in the society.

Priyanka Umar should not marry... why?
Because she is Hindu(Sindhi) and Umar is Muslim. Why is the denial? Reasons are some what obvious.
1. From different cult and different family. I hope Muslims also breathe , eat food , take bath , enjoy the pleasure of life , procreate and deliver the religious duties like a Hindu, Christain , Parsi, Sikh, or any other person who is human. Not a Valid reason to deny the marriage.
2. Priyanka cannot adjust because Muslims do leave the wives. Well just do the survey you will find cases of female-maltreatment in Hindu family. The slow killing that too mentally either by torturing in name of dowry , in name of purity or in name of male domination is evident in nearly every Hindu family. The second hand treatment of woman is nearly an acceptable part of Hindu family inheritance, though the claims that woman are treated as Devi-Goddess are well presented. And next what is the guarantee that the Hindu boy will never end up in the dispute leading divorce case with Priyanka.
3. Or still the horror- to- be- retailiated of 1947 is ruling the minds of masses. Useless matter every person is busy in maintaining the life and living it no one cries for he dead and gone. They are remembered but as a past incident not matter to be retaliated.
4. Or the matter is that how come the Muslim boy who is not of Sindhi(Hindu) Community has dared to marry the Sindhi Girl. It suggest me some thing as is Hindu Boys are claiming "How come it be so that when we are in the line or say in the queue and the guy who is not in Queue or say out of the queue has taken the Girl?" Denial also raises this reason. May be its some humorous but it validates the factuality. But this became well spun reason but was overpowered by the political agenda.

Clearly the systematic politics over the simple issue of love has shown the third rate mentality of masses and low esteem of woman in Indian(Hindu) Society even though they are claimed as Goddess. It is some thing very strange in this scientific age , if the Neurochemical-Itch( what we can call love) which gives a healthy life to two citizens how some these cult drivers are taking the actions against them. If a religion teaches to deny the truth what you feel means it is absolutely denying the creation itself.
Love is nothing but a neurochemical state of mind which produces the lightened feelings among two persona and their by giving out the results as healthy state of mind. But you see the very basis of this scientific truth is denied. If two different persons feel a strong magnetism to lead a healthy life then how come the society be so unscientific. How come social dogma holders can decide that the maturity is decided by the Cult and community heads? The cult or religion cannot be a limiting factor in deciding what is the right for any person. Yeah it of course can lead to the suggestions of proper way to adjust and continue the harmonious way to live.

So you see in how shabby ways this approach to the achievement called Humanity is being done. And then is done the describing of the loveliness of peace. OH... what a lovely thing the peaceful society is. It is cinch according to the Priyanka Umar case the neurochemical are more responsible. So a suggestion to the Cult drivers kill the senses of Human beings so that they will be more like vegetables now you are free to eat them.
Who is to tell Bajarangis that the GOD of whom they have affiliated their name of the organization has just helped the two lovers RAM and SITA to unite. It would have been much better that if they have accepted the marriage and have given it a hearty welcome and made them feel better and united. Ram-Sita can be and are everywhere ; you just need a vision, not political manipulations.

So you see neurochemicals are very itchy not to the person having them but to the others who see you have.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

1. The two youth did not set for marriage to give direction to the "society". They were in love and wished to spend life together.

2. Author needs to rethink her views about Hinduism. You belong to the herd of people who are Hindus and are hating Hindus. That is why Hindus are being victimized through different ways in this society - Minority reservations, condemnation as looters - as if everyone in India is humanitarian as long as he is not "Hindu". This is what Ayn Rand called "sanction of victim". This is what Hindus are doing in India.
You analyzed many points what Hindus are saying about this marriage. But did you say anything about what Muslims are saying , and can do? They may even release "fatwa" to get both killed, it has happened in past also. When you analyze, look impartially.

No doubt, this marriage makes sense. But the author should review her views and reasoning about diff religions. All religions are crap and negative to society. But when they exist in society, and you cannot restrict yourself from talking about them, you should weigh both he sides.

businesspurely said...

To Anonymous
Knowingly or unknowingly they have set a direction to society.---
Hmm I wrote against the cult drivers not Hindus.
Any way read the last para of the article and you will get the holistic approach to the matter.
To correct error "me first" approach is needed. Since I am born in Hindu family so I have look error part on Hindu side first. Next comes the otherside in error pointing, If I am correct.
In the case of Prianka- Umar the diatribe was initiated by Hindus and followed by Muslims later on.

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